Hey, I’m Caleb.

This is where I let you in.

I’m a student/athlete at USC in Los Angeles, figuring out what I want, and getting a little better at admitting it.

Most days, I’m moving between practice, class, and whatever I’ve managed to overthink in between. Usually a man. Sometimes a text from a man. Occasionally an assignment I should’e started days ago.

This is where I write about desire, dating, and the moments that stay with me long. I like stories that feel like a secret whispered in the dark. Here, I get to share them with you.

What you’ll find here

First-person stories about men, intimacy, and figuring myself out. Some are playful. Some leave me feeling exposed, even after I’ve finished writing them.

There’s also Ask Caleb, where your questions start conversations about sex, connection, and the things that can feel awkward to bring up first. I’m still learning, too. That’s part of the conversation.

And if you’d rather listen, you’ll find audio readings, so I can tell you a story myself.

Stay a little longer

Subscribe to get new posts in your inbox. If you find yourself looking forward to the next one, a paid subscription helps me keep writing and gives this little corner of the internet room to grow. Think of it as slipping a tip in my jockstrap.

You’re welcome in the conversation, too. Leave a comment. Ask a question. Send a message. I love finding out which small detail stayed with someone, especially when it’s one I almost deleted. If my stories hit you somewhere deep, or low, let me know. 😏

Whether you’ve been here for months or just found me through a photo, I’m glad you’re here.

Make yourself comfortable. I have a few things to tell you.

Love,
Caleb

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